Fitting In & Standing Out
When did we learn that blending in and fitting the mold was of paramount importance?
Well, I really believe that these lessons began influencing our actions at a very young age.
Early on in our educational careers, we were introduced to interactive games that encouraged rigid compliance and “knowing our roles”. Games like House, Red Light, Green Light, Follow the Leader, and Simon Says were just a few of these shining examples.
These games (both consciously and subconsciously) taught us to comply, and fit the mold. They even rewarded us with approval, acceptance and applause if we could successfully do both while others were watching.
Whether we realize it or not, continuing to pour our valuable (and limited) time and energy into fitting in can directly hold us back from fully discovering and stepping into our unique callings.
Times are changing, and we must work together to unlearn the mis-educations from our past.
Starting today, try refocusing the lens through which you see the world. Write down your own definition(s) of success. Begin asking the hard questions, doing your own research and coming to your own conclusions. Starting today, begin building your own unique brand. One that sets you a part and shows others just how unique and special you truly are.
You’re Simon now.
What do YOU say?
Brenda C. Sands
7/24/2017 09:24:13 am
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